Written by Beau, MSED, BCBA, TRLC, CCST-I, RYT 200
As a specialist in pediatric behavior, I’m here to share key insights that can help you and your young person empower, adapt, and thrive. Here’s what you need to know-
Deciding if and when to tell your child about their diagnosis can be an emotionally overwhelming process. Parents often wrestle with questions like, “How will my child take it?” or “Will they understand?” These concerns are natural and can leave you feeling stuck, unsure of the next step.
💡 Here’s the truth: sharing a diagnosis is not about labeling—it’s about empowering.
🚨Before deciding to share the diagnosis with your young adult, it’s essential to first go through your own journey of acceptance and understanding. Take the time to reflect on whether you’re ready to fully embrace the diagnosis, commit to learning as much as you can, and become the safe, confident, and supportive presence your child will rely on. This foundation of self-awareness and preparedness will ensure you approach the conversation with empathy, clarity, and strength.
When done thoughtfully, it provides your young person with tools to:
better understand themselves
navigate challenges
build confidence
💪 It also sends a powerful message: You are loved, supported, and accepted just as you are.
On the flip side, waiting for peers or outside influences to fill in the gaps can lead to confusion or even hurt.
Instead, being the safe person to guide this conversation ensures your young person hears the truth in a compassionate, supportive way.
By telling your child about their diagnosis, you’re not just giving them information—you’re giving them a framework to understand their experiences and the reassurance that they’re not alone. The key is to keep the conversation open, age-appropriate, and centered on their strengths. You’ve been their guide through every challenge so far—this is another opportunity to help them grow and thrive.
⚡️ 3 Ways To Be A Safe Guide ⚡️
⭐️ Highlight Your Young Person's Growth
Remind your young person of the amazing progress they've made over time. Share stories about how special therapists helped them learn important skills, like eating, speaking, or navigating challenging situations. Celebrate their achievements and resilience in overcoming obstacles.
⭐️ Introduce the Idea of Brain-Powered Differences:
Explain that their brain works in unique and powerful ways, which may come with both
challenges and incredible strengths. Help him see his differences as part of what makes
him who they are.
⭐️ Inspire Through Role Models:
Share stories of famous and influential neurodiverse individuals (or even family member!). This can show your teen that being different is not only okay—it can be a superpower.
By framing the conversation positively and focusing on strengths, you can empower your
child to embrace their identity with confidence.
Your Solution to Empowering Your Young Person Starts Here—Let’s Work Together
